大家覺得: 友誼是什么?在我的觀念里,友誼是一種來自雙向關(guān)系的情感, 既雙方共同凝結(jié)的情感。 友誼, 它是一種美妙的東西, 可以讓你在失落的時(shí)候變得高興起來, 可以讓你走出苦海,去迎接新的人生。它就像一種你無法說出的, 又可以感到快樂無比的東西。 友誼是人生最有價(jià)值的精神財(cái)富。沒有了友誼,你將變得孤單, 沒有了友誼, 你將會失去你的自信, 沒有了友誼, 你的財(cái)富將失去金色的光環(huán)。然而, 朋友間必須是患難相濟(jì)的, 經(jīng)不起考驗(yàn)的不算是真正的友誼。因?yàn)?友誼的最珍貴之處就在于此:在朋友需要的時(shí)候。真誠地去幫助朋友排除煩惱, 化解郁悶, 樹立自信和克服困難。

我向往的友誼是這樣:彼此都不需要拼命在對方面前表現(xiàn)很厲害的樣子,聊天時(shí)可以暢所欲言, 不要想好了臺詞再說。在我最困難的時(shí)候, 可以雪中送炭, 在我成功的時(shí)候, 可以和我一起分享勝利和喜悅。在我悲傷無助的時(shí)候, 可以給我安慰與關(guān)懷。
在上海楓葉我就遇到自己向往的友誼, 那是我和小白的友誼。雖然我們只認(rèn)識了三個(gè)月, 但是時(shí)間并不代表什么我們倆天天在一起形影不離, 就像一對連體嬰兒一樣。只要看到了我也就能看到小白, 只要看到她,后面跟著的一定是我。 在學(xué)習(xí)上我遇到不會的問題, 小白總會像小老師一樣細(xì)心的跟我講解, 一遍又一遍不厭其煩的重復(fù)著直到我會為止。課余時(shí)間我們總愛在一起閱讀, 生活上我們也是互相幫助的對象。

巴金先生曾經(jīng)說過:友誼是生命中的一盞明燈, 離開了它, 生命就沒有光彩, 離開它, 生命就不會開花結(jié)果。友誼是一棵樹, 要用真誠和摯愛去灌溉, 用信任和寬容去栽培。 嫉妒和猜疑是毒藥, 會使友誼之樹根枯葉焦, 失去生命的綠色。友誼是推心置腹的交談, 是默默無聲的關(guān)懷。友誼是不求回答的付出, 是無拘無束的平等交流。 友誼是理解, 是尊重, 是從一顆開放的心走進(jìn)另一顆開放的心。 友誼是驅(qū)使孤獨(dú)和絕望的動力。 所以如果你想擁有一份真摯的友誼,請你真誠對待他人!
The Friendship
Now let me ask you a question: What is friendship? Friendship is a kind of emotion from two-way relationships when both sides condensatetogether. Friendship, it is a wonderful thing, It can make you happy when you are lost, It can let you out of the sea of suffering, to meet a new life. It`s like something you can`t explain, and you can feel so happy. Friendship is the most valuable spiritual wealth in life. Without friendship, you will become lonely, without friendship, you will lose yourself-confidence, without friendship, your wealth will lose the aura of qold. Nevertheless, friendship between friends must be a combination of benefits and hardships. Itis not a truefriendship that can not stand the test. Because this is the most precious thing about friendship: when friends need it. With sincere friendship to help them get rid of their troubles, relieved depression, build up self-confidence andovercome difficulties.
My longing for friendship is like this: each other do not need to desperately behave in front of the other, speak freely, they do not think about the lines to say again.In my most difficult times ,l can send charcoal in the snow. When I succeed, I can share the victory and joy with you. When l am sad and helpless, you can give me comfort and care.
l also met such friendship in Maple Leaf, which is my friendship with Xiao bai, we only know each other for three months, time does not meanthat we are inseparable from each other everyday, just like a couple of conjoined babies. As long as you see me, you can see Xiao Bai, as long as you see that she must be followed byme.in learning, as long as l will not meet , Xiao baiwill be as careful as a little teacher to explainto me, repeated over and over until will, afterschool time we always love to read together.in life we are also the object of mutual help.
Mr. Ba Jin once said: Friendship is a beaconin life. Without it, life will not be glorious. Withoutit, life will not blossom and bear fruit. Friendshipis a tree that needs to be irrigated with sincerityand love and cultivated with trust and tolerance.Jealousy and suspicion are poisons, which canmake the roots of friendship withered and theleaves burnt and lose the green of life. Friendshipis a heart-to-heart conversation, a silentconcern. Friendship is not an answer-seeking effort, it is an unrestrained and equal exchange. Friendship is understanding, respect, from an open heart into another open heart. Friendshipis the driving force of loneliness and despair.So if you want to have a sincere friendship, youshould be sincereto others .


